I first learnt the word attraction from my primary school teacher. Unlike poles of magnets attract one another. But unlike the attraction that the unlike poles of a magnet have for one another, the different gender of humans tend to be a little more tricky and difficult for some male individuals.
Remember in the previous post I mentioned certain “Mr. Nice Guy” not being able to get his dream girl, even though he’s got a good character and average looks, while the jerks around him seems to get the (pretty) girls? Well, our Mr. Nice Guy here is not alone.
Just think about the people around you, how many of those male, who are very nice individuals, do not have a girlfriend by choice? How about those jerks who treat their girlfriends like dirt? I am sure there are plenty of examples you can quote. Maybe you’re one of those Mr. Nice Guys around, who those girls around don’t appreciate (YEAH, it’s their loss).
Ok, let’s just move away from this discussion about the good guys drooling while the jerk gets the babe and move on to something more interesting, something more about you and me.
Now ask yourself guys, what makes a girl attractive to you? It could be looks, a sporty image, a nurturing and motherly character or other things that we guys usually associate with desirable girls. Certain girls who are able to attract us with such traits, looks being the usual case, we start to have a crush on them. The crush slowly develops into liking and subsequently into love.
The very same way, girls start by having a small attraction towards guys, it slowly develops into a liking and as their dependence on the guy grows, she starts to fall in love with him. The key, however, lies in the attraction.
Below are 3 things men believe females are attracted to.
Looks
Money
Popularity
However, this is more not the case most of the time. Having the looks, money, or popularity gives you an advantage, but it does not guarantee you success in your pursuit of a female. What the females are looking for are men who desire the 3 factors mentioned above. Men who desire to be better-looking, richer and more popular are men with goals and this is indeed what the females are looking for. If you show them that you constantly strive to do better in these 3 aspects of your life, they are bound to be more attracted to you.
Besides, females are also looking for males who are able to give them security and protection. By showing them that you can provide them a sense of security and protection, you will become more desirable, thus making you more attractive to females.
The article is not adequate to cover all that is needed to make you a more attractive male. In order to do so, you need to think about how you are going to improve these 3 aspects of your life, as well as think about how you can go about in your actions and words to show the females YOU ARE SOMEONE who can provide them with security and protection. Only then, will they be attracted you. Please feel free to direct any queries to me at fortiusmale@yahoo.com and I’ll be very glad to answer them.
Good luck guys!
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